Sexuality and Sex – The Importance of Foreplay

sex-desireSexuality is a natural desire within us to look young and sexually attractive. A woman desires her sexuality to remain young forever with well-built busts and a slim, beautiful figure. Similarly a man wishes a well-built muscular body to impress the opposite sex.

Sexuality inevitably leads to the desire of sex, with a spur of hormones driving energy within the body, the feeling to possess the other person solely for himself or herself.

Erotic feelings and thoughts motivates the person to build closeness and initiate physical intimacy between his or her counterpart to a point where mere physical touch gives an immense pleasure.

Sexuality and Sex

The body adequately reacts to this wave of sexuality. The body also prepares itself for sex with secretions of fluids from the vagina or penis that enables easy penetration during sexual intercourse. The body heats up with sweating, heart beat rises as your partner comes close and touches more and more.

With the continuing sexual activity, pumping and thrusting, it is not long with the body reaches towards orgasm, a climax that leads the man to ejaculate the sperms, and the woman to experience an extreme uncontrolled sexual feeling, with a release of energy.

All this act of sex not only reduces stress, it also enables the person to lose a lot of calories as sexual intercourse uses up a lot of energy from the body. It is usually the man who is at the top of woman, and whose body initiates the “pumping” or thrusting action, and of course, it is the man who loses most of the calories.

What is Foreplay?
Foreplay means to enjoy playing with your partner’s body, especially the genitals, before the actual sexual intercourse. It involves touching, kissing, using fingers actively to excite your partner, oral sex etc.

foreplayQuite often, the man ejaculates “too soon” before enjoying the complete process, and especially for this, it becomes necessary to engage in foreplay.

When your partner is near, the man should not try to “quickly grab the opportunity”, reach orgasm and ejaculate. This won’t let either one of the two enjoy sex completely, and most often, it is the woman who suffers with it.

Importance of Foreplay

It thus becomes necessary to charge your partner as well as yourself before the actual act of sex with foreplay. Every act, gesture and act matters here, including use of mild deodorants and perfumes, music, and the ambience. With all this perfectly set, begin with talks that favor your partner, and gradually indulge in foreplay to enjoy the full round of sex that will be more satisfying and relaxing for both.